I took off a year I think in 2015 from facebook. I never deleted the account- but I remember thinking I'd keep it open in case anyone wanted to message me. Only 1 person did the entire year. It was to invite me to a group dinner (I think it was a mass message) and when I let him know I wasn't able to come, I never got a response. I remember it just being pretty laid back and relaxed without it
The next year I think in 2016 I gave up Instagram also. Again not deleting it (i'm not sure what my justification was there, again I had a "friend" in Ireland, maybe I was hoping they would message me?) Even more peaceful- I forgot about both pretty easily. I tried snapchat for a couple months but grew bored with that also.
Fast forward to today. I'm back to looking at both daily. Several times a day for fb, a few times a day for Instagram and I'm sick of it.
I've been doing this for about 3 weeks now.
I remember the day I checked fb for the first time after over a year. I "popped" in just to see my half sisters new born baby picture. My dad had told me about him and I was curious. When I looked for the pictures I saw that I had a friend request.
Well, I don't want to hurt their feelings I thought. That seems so silly now. So I justified that I would "pop" in every now and then to check and see if I had any new friend requests and I got them!
About 6--
Then I thought well, I'll scroll a bit and see what everybody is up too---
POSTING POLITICAL CRAP is what everyone is up to!
I was happy to see that a girl who had been single for a long time finally found a guy and is in love. The funny thing is, is that I don't even like the girl. She's ignored my lunch meet up invites and was always a back stabber. But for some reason I was curious about her and this new man.
I slid further and further until I was just like everyone else again-- I posted a few times justifying that it was ok because I was just posting it to the homebrew club page-
But SHIT! I became hooked again. Damn they're good!
So-- today, I quit social media. AGAIN I haven't deleted it yet. But it starts a new year. This time next year for both Instagram and facebook if I haven't been messaged on either form than I'll delete both accounts.
Wheeeeee!
I'm excited and relieved!
Until Next Time!
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